Obsessive relationships, how to identify and over come obsession…!

While we can easily critisize others of their shortcomings or behaviour, we fail to acknowledge who we truly are. This happens quite casually and you are not alone in this list. We often speak about domestic violence, crime and try to protect oneself or our loved ones from it. This society teaches and imparts controlContinue reading “Obsessive relationships, how to identify and over come obsession…!”

The Under privilaged

Often we associate the under privilaged to those people who do not have the privilage of economical resources, good academic education, equal and fair opportunities but we tend to not recognize the main factors which build the society. There are those who might be economically well off, with a decent academic education and finds fairContinue reading “The Under privilaged”

Emotional Abuse

Scars of an emotional abuse lasts longer than a physical incident. We could have been a victim of emotional abuse, party to it without knowledge or both. An average individual would have gone through this cycle at least once in his/her life time. It takes immense strength for one to realize this or accept ifContinue reading “Emotional Abuse”

தேவதையின் நிறம் கருப்பு…! Part 1

எழுத்து பிழைகளுக்கு மன்னிக்கவும் 🙏🏼 அன்று காலை நேரம், அவசரமாக பசியுடன் இருக்கும் தன் குழந்தைக்கு சமைத்து கொண்டு இருந்தாள். மனதுக்குள் வேலை ஆள் வைத்து பயன் இல்லையே. எப்போது அத்யாவசியமோ அப்போது உதவி கிடைக்காமல் போகிறதே என்ற எண்ணம். இளகிய மனம் படைத்த அவளாள் அத்தனை சீக்கிரம் இன்ரோடு நின்று கொள் என கூற மனம் இல்லை. சில சமையம் பொருமை இழந்து கோபம் வந்தாலும் தனக்கு தானே சமாதானம் சொல்லும் ஒரு சராசரி பெண்.Continue reading “தேவதையின் நிறம் கருப்பு…! Part 1”

Silence is powerful

Silence is a beautiful expression often undervalued and forgotten as we age. Do you remember those days when your only expression is a smile, nod, wave and then getting back to your serious business of licking your cake, meddling with your toy, running all around, watching your favorite program. The mind focuses only on enjoyingContinue reading “Silence is powerful”

Gardeners corner – Methi ( Vendhaiya Keerai) Plant

With a dual objective of appeasing my interest in writing and gardening, i start this series of short essays with every possible information and experience i accumilate in this domain. It is best for a beginner to start with Methi plant which is also called as “Vendhaiya Keerai” in tamil and Fenugreek leaves in English.Continue reading “Gardeners corner – Methi ( Vendhaiya Keerai) Plant”

Pain never breaks you, it makes you !

Ever wonder what really builds you ? Love, joy, wealth, success, popularity keeps you in a Heaven, high in a lonely place without seeing the realistic world. It creates a dream palace for you and captures you within. While the real lessons and personal development kicks in when you get a big blow. You justContinue reading “Pain never breaks you, it makes you !”